The sexiest women through the eyes of ordinary men. What makes a woman old? How to look younger? Other opinions of men about women

Scientists from Finland have found out what the most attractive age of a woman is from the point of view of men.

Researchers from the University of Turku, which is located in Finland, were able to determine what age a woman is optimal from the point of view of men. It turned out that men believe that the peak of a woman's attractiveness occurs between the ages of 23 and 28. And the most ideal is 24-25 years old.

Experts report that men choose this particular age under the influence of evolutionary factors, because it is at the age of 25 that a woman experiences peak fertility, and it is at this age that a woman is most likely to conceive a child.

Interestingly, women have a slightly different opinion. So, for example, they believe that they look most attractive at 34 years old, they also feel most beautiful after 30 years old, but they “become” the most stylish a little later.

As for men, women have not determined a single “age of attractiveness” for them. Ladies are more often attracted to their peers, or to men who are a little older. Due to such a range of answers, it was very difficult to determine the optimally attractive age of a man. Women explain their choice by the fact that they like men who have already achieved financial stability and security.

34 is a wonderful date,
Let there be joyful hops in your head,
Your whole life will become only rich in happiness,
And it goes through without any losses!

Let everything go smoothly at work,
There will be a wonderful home comfort.
Everything in the relationship is in perfect order,
And better years are ahead!

Today is your holiday -
Naughty birthday!
I wish you all kinds of blessings,
And not a single worry!

Turned 34
This date is just awesome
Smile wider
So that the enthusiasm inside does not fade!

Congratulations on your 34th birthday and I wish you to be proud of everything that you have in life, to strive for everything that has not yet been achieved, to enjoy your happiness and love, I wish you successful activities and excellent well-being, family well-being and prosperity, good health and high notes of optimism.

No happier today
Person in the world:
It's your birthday -
Already thirty-four!

Accept wishes
Peace and prosperity
Give yourself to the work of life
Just without a trace.

Let there be love in your heart,
Dollars are in your pocket.
Let intuition
In life he will not deceive.

To a friend

34 is not a lot at all.
Much has been done, much has not.
A long road awaits you
Loud battles and sweet victories.

So, friend, let's raise our glasses,
And let us smile at the villainous fate.
34 is so little!
I wish you to live a hundred years!

The fate of the year is like beads
Dresses it on a thread,
Happy 34th birthday
I congratulate you.

I wish the thread
I wasn’t torn in the hands of fate,
And to the necklace
Yours didn't fall apart.

So that the beads sparkle,
With happiness, so that they sparkle,
All your wishes
To make things come true in life.

Let the years not appear in any way on your face or heart. I wish your soul to be as young as it is now. Let your well-being be at its best, let your health not worry you, and let your only concern be the question: “What to spend the money on?” Please accept these congratulations as a sign of my respect and love for you.

Happy Birthday to You,
Happiness, joy, goodness,
Let your dreams come true
Find your path in life.

Believe in ideas, build plans,
Don't forget about your friends
You are 34 today
Let's have fun!

May life be tolerant of you
And supportive in small things,
You are now thirty-four,
You're growing by leaps and bounds!

May fate give you
Everything you want to get
Let every day be special
To understand what it means to live!

Thirty-four years ago an incredible event happened: your birth. Happy Birthday, may from this day on there be only happy moments in your life, and may troubles, problems and disappointments turn into a half-forgotten myth. Happy holiday to you.

Happy birthday and turning 34 years old! I wish you all the best, both spiritual and material. Happy resolution of problems if they suddenly appear, and the greatest joy from every day you live. Happy holiday, may it be remembered forever

Hello, I'm 34 years old. She was not married, no children. I dated men, had serious relationships, but somehow it didn’t work out. A year ago I broke up with the man I truly loved; we lived together for 3 years. But it turned out that he did not need a family and children. When we broke up, everyone around me began to convince me to try to build a relationship with my work colleague. We had known each other for 3 years before, I was never attracted to him. After much conversation and convincing, I decided to give it a try. He is a good and decent person. We've been together for almost a year, but I haven't woken up any feelings. My friends say that I’m a fool, and that at 34 they don’t turn their noses up anymore. But I can’t do it, I really want to love and be loved... On the other hand, time is running out, I already very consciously want to have children. But I think that living with an unloved man and having children from him is not good. What do you think, should we ignore all this romantic nonsense and live without love, or should we still hope and search?

Sonya, Israel, 34 years old / 05/03/06

Our experts' opinions

Alyona

You know, whatever one may say, it’s better to “try” food and drinks in tasting rooms. Is it possible to “try to live” with another person? It’s like it’s like a thing in a store: I picked it up, tried it in the fitting room, if I liked it, I’ll buy it, but if I don’t like it, I’ll hang it on the same hanger I got it from and forget about it. Your question, of course, is largely ethical. You, perhaps without realizing it, have been misleading a person who loves you, but whom you do not love, for a year now. Imagine yourself in his place. Let’s say you’re in love with a man, you’re ready to live with him, bear him children, and he... he just decided to “try” you. If you come, he will stay with you. If not, he will go on to seek happiness. Not very pleasant, you must admit... On the other hand, what would you prefer? The truth that life with you was just a test, a fallback? Or is it better for you to continue living with this person, not suspecting that every day he is trying to penetrate you with a big and bright feeling, but he is still not there? In general, try to turn your whole situation upside down, spend a little time in the role of your man and think, do you need such happiness - to be a “tester”? 34 years is not the age to do such desperate things as live with an unloved person, have children from him and expect that someday you will love him (“She loved him for his torment, and he loved her for her compassion for them... "). And it’s generally not serious to talk about numerous advisers and well-wishers. Each person has his own image of how everything should be in this life. And your ideas about happiness. For some reason, it seems to me that in your idea of female happiness there is no point “marry someone who will marry you, because time flies and I’m getting old.” And the point here is not romance, and not the desire to wait for a prince on a white horse. Even a dog has the desire to love and be loved. Why are you worse? Weigh all the pros and cons of the union in question. Just remember that dissatisfaction and dissatisfaction with a partner tend to accumulate and then burst open like an abscess. But at the same time, by that time you will no longer be 34 years old...
Sergey

Hmm... You have good friends. You know, ever since I left my family, I really wanted, like in the movies, to find a Teacher. That's right, with a capital letter. Thanks to his sensitive guidance, I wanted to become big, smart and significant and live very well. For some reason, such a Teacher was never found, but I always listened to the opinion of the elders, or not even the elders, but simply those who gave advice. It seemed to me that everyone who gave me advice were people who knew what they were talking about and sincerely wanted to help. Then one event happened, and I suddenly realized that all I wanted, in fact, was for someone to take responsibility for my actions, for my desires, and this someone, giving advice, even about this I never thought. He simply blurted out the first thing that came to mind, unaware of the consequences. I just wanted to show myself as a knowledgeable and experienced person. Damn, he showed me... I got scared and tried to figure out what was happening. I found out that I’ve been used to it since childhood. Mom, being a powerful woman, always told me what I wanted and what to do. It was very convenient. No responsibility. Whatever I did, it's not my fault. The ancestors are to blame... Forefathers and foremothers, uncles, aunts... Well, and further, according to the film. I'm used to it. And I still don’t really know what I want. Wow. I can do a lot. But do I want to? Here you are too. Look, your friend gave you advice. So? But you live with someone you don’t love. It’s you who wakes up next to him and winces. Every evening you think about whether you should stay at work longer... You, not your friends. You know, giving advice is very simple. And mostly, people do this without even thinking about how the questioner might react to them. You must understand that no one, not a single soul, will even remember tomorrow what he advised you today. He will look at what you do, what decisions you make, how successful you are. Everything else is nonsense! So let's stop nodding to "numerous conversations and beliefs." You made the decision. And to the people who advised you to live with someone you don’t love, your problems are, in fact, as big as a lantern. This is a fact, unfortunately, and it is better to realize this quickly. My opinion is the following - the only thing that matters is what you yourself do, what you yourself feel. If you feel at 34 years old like a woman who has nothing to catch, that means you will be exactly like that. You live with someone you don’t love, therefore, you yourself, and only yourself, decided so. So don't point your head at anyone. You are no longer 17 years old. It's time to decide for yourself what you want and how to achieve it. 34 years is not a sentence. Quite the opposite. And if your friends think that you are a fool, then what the hell are such friends? Maybe I’m wrong, but no matter what they advise you, and no matter who it is, you make the decision, and only you do something in life. And one more thing... I am scolded with enviable frequency for rudeness, rudeness, and impudence. So here it is. I want to tell you that I don’t feel sorry for you. If you want pity, go to your friends. And I want you to be strong, confident and independent. And, in my opinion, snot is not suitable for this. I was rude - you thought. Already the result. Good luck.

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Do not add years to yourself with excessive makeup and exaggeratedly conservative clothes that are not appropriate for your age. Hardly any woman wants to look her age when she reaches thirty. If in their youth many girls would really like to appear older, then on the eve of their thirties a woman wants to look no worse than her younger friends. A large amount of foundation, jet-black eyebrows and red lipstick during the day can still be forgiven in makeup for a woman who, due to her age, has not yet learned to emphasize her strengths and hide her flaws. Women around 30 years old, wearing bright and tacky makeup, in most cases look simply vulgar.
If your figure allows, be sure to wear fashionable and beautiful clothes. Of course, microshorts with lace trim and short tops with Mickey Mouse are unlikely to look organic on someone over 18 years old, but emphasizing beautiful legs with skinny jeans or a miniskirt and refreshing the complexion with a white tight one is absolutely not forbidden. Of course, this isn't the best work wardrobe option - especially if your employer's rules enforce a strict dress code - but in your free time you have the right to dress however you please (and feel comfortable).

If you really want to look significantly younger than your age, then be sure to devote enough time to physical activity. This will not only make your figure more toned and elastic and help you avoid excess weight, but will also help the body produce hormones that help improve the appearance of your skin and sparkle in your eyes. Representatives of the fairer sex leading an active lifestyle look significantly younger than their peers also because for the most part they are cheerful optimists with a smile on their faces. But nothing else adds age to a woman more than a dull look, eternally frowning eyebrows and pursed lips, so characteristic of many ladies who just yesterday were laughing girls.

Please note that it is around the age of 30 that the first wrinkles begin to appear on the skin. This is why you should always take good care of your face. If a young girl can afford not to always wash off her makeup at night, have fun at noisy parties all night long and sometimes eat fast food, then on the face of a thirty-year-old woman all excesses are very quickly reflected in the most unpleasant way. If you have not yet found “your” cosmetologist, then be sure to take up this issue. And stop smoking if you still haven’t gotten rid of this bad habit - nothing ages a woman’s skin more than nicotine.
If you spend enough time in the fresh air, eat only healthy foods, take care of the condition of your body, play sports and do not abuse alcohol, then at 30, 40, and 50 years old you will look much younger and more attractive than your average self. peers.

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It is believed that asking a woman how old she is is an indicator of bad taste. This does not apply to men, so some representatives of the fair sex, having begun to get acquainted with gentlemen, are interested in their age. And sometimes they find themselves in an ambiguous situation: the man either avoids answering or seems to be telling a lie. The girl involuntarily thinks: how to find out how old he is, without secretly looking at his passport.

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You can try to determine its approximate appearance by a combination of external signs, for example, the general outline of the figure and face, skin condition, hair density, the presence or absence of gray hair, wrinkles, etc. As a rule, people of middle or close to old age, even if they are athletic, fit, lack youthful thinness and angularity. Their body seems to blur a little. But, of course, there are exceptions here, as in cases with gray hair, wrinkles, and baldness. For example, the well-known Ulyanov-Lenin went bald when he was just over 20 years old.

Try, as if by chance, gradually, to shift the conversation to his childhood or teenage years. And at the same time ask the question: “When did you graduate from school?” He will almost certainly automatically name the correct date. Do some simple calculations in your head and come to a conclusion: did he lie to you about his age or not? For example, if a man claimed to be thirty, but it turned out that he graduated from school before the collapse of the USSR, then he is at least ten years older. Draw conclusions.

Pay attention to his behavior, manner of speaking, general tone. In some cases, excessive assertiveness, haste, and categorical judgment are characteristic of very young people who have not yet gained life experience. On the contrary, slowness, prudence, and the desire to compromise are signs of a mature, respectable person.

Oddly enough, the smell of his perfume can tell a lot about a man’s age. The fact is that over the years, the sensitivity of the olfactory receptors dulls a little. And a man often starts using cologne with a stronger, sharper, heavier smell. Young people, who have a keener sense of smell, rarely use perfumes with such aromas.

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Female age is a real mystery for men, especially considering that it is completely indecent to be interested in it. There are many external signs and behavioral characteristics that can indirectly answer this question.

Age characteristics of a person

If we talk about external signs, the easiest way to determine a woman’s age is by her neck and décolleté. Since the skin in these areas is delicate and thin, it is highly sensitive to negative external influences, and age leaves quite noticeable marks on it.

Wrinkles on the face are the result of the actions of facial muscles, while the neck muscle weakens from the lack of any movement. This is why the skin on the neck fades relatively early. So if you see imperfect, slightly sagging skin on the neck, this may indicate that its owner has celebrated her thirtieth birthday or is close to it.

The eyes also make it possible to roughly determine a woman's age. There are no important sebaceous glands in the eye area, which makes the skin in this area vulnerable to negative environmental influences. Wrinkles, swelling, circles under the eyes - all this indicates that this is no longer a twenty-year-old girl.

Of course, it is always possible to find out a woman’s age through social networks, but usually only very young girls honestly indicate their age.

How else can you find out a girl's age?

If we talk about other features of appearance, it is necessary to mention the differences in the use of cosmetics. So girls seventeen to twenty years old usually prefer bright, elaborate makeup. After twenty years, girls try to emphasize the features of their face with makeup, and not hide it behind decorative cosmetics. By the age of thirty, women sometimes return to brighter makeup, which allows them to hide the appearance of wrinkles and attract the necessary attention of men.

You can also guess a woman's age based on her clothes. Young girls try to express themselves through bright clothes with complex or strange cuts, and they often choose complex, unusual hairstyles. Girls of twenty try to look mature and respectable, so their wardrobe and hairstyles become classic and natural. Women of thirty, as a rule, perfectly shape their image and look more sophisticated. In addition, in the appearance of a thirty-year-old woman you can often see something unique, inherent only to her.

The list of interests on social networks also allows you to make a fairly accurate guess about the girl’s age. The older she is, the more logical and orderly such lists are.

Of course, you can and should meet women of different ages in different places. For example, very young girls prefer loud discos where they can dance to their heart's content. Twenty-year-old girls choose interesting and prestigious clubs where they can make useful contacts. And thirty-year-olds prefer cozy, unusual establishments.

Sociologists from the British Research Center announced that they had found what is the best age in a person's life?. Previously, this figure was given very approximately - between 25 and 60 years. Now, scientists, having asked 2 thousand respondents aged 40 years and older, have discovered what age people considered the happiest for themselves, as well as what key factors make a person happy at different stages of life.

The question of the happiest time in life has interested researchers before. For example, in 2013, psychologists from the London School of Economics, based on a survey of 20 thousand people from around the world, calculated that in the fate of every average person there are two “peaks of happiness” - 23 years old when a person is young, devoid of negative experiences and full of hope, and 69 years old, when he has accumulated life wisdom and knows the value of eternal values. A little earlier, British sociologists indicated the figure as the “age of happiness” 58 - this was what was most often mentioned in the survey by the majority of 1,000 pensioners over 60 years of age.

According to the authors of a recent study, most adults call their happiest age 34 years, since by this moment, usually the one who wanted to, has already managed to realize himself: start a family and give birth to children, get an education, achieve success in his career and save some capital. However, scientists agree that you can feel happy at any age, only the reasons for this will be different. What factors are most valuable for the main age categories?

20 years and older

Youth and health.
Less responsibility and more freedom than the older generation.
Most people like their appearance.
Many people get married.
All the money you earn can be spent on yourself.
Meeting your first true love, the most touching dates and whirlwind romances.
All loved ones are still nearby.
Birth of the first child.
Lots of relationships with interesting people.
Time for active travel.

30 years and older

Happiness is seeing children grow up and raising them.
Meeting true love.
The ability to appreciate the small joys of life comes.
Traveling takes on a new flavor.
The ability to make the right decisions is developed.
Climbing the career ladder, making good money.
Meaningful marriage.
Getting a new job or changing profession.
Purchasing your own home.
Moving to a new place of residence.

40 years and older

Feeling of inner harmony.
Enjoying family life.
Meeting your love.
Improving parenting experience, spending time with older children.
Once again I have time for myself, hobbies and interests.
Feeling like a successful person.
I managed to put aside savings and ensure material well-being.
Getting married (for many, remarried) or starting life “from scratch” after a divorce.
Moving to a new, more spacious home.
Taking care of my health and appearance bore fruit: I managed to lose weight and get in shape.

50 years and older

Achieving financial and psychological comfort.
There is less work, and more time for yourself.
You can travel again.
The appearance of grandchildren.
The children began to live independently.
Getting married.
Reaching the peak of your career.
Getting rid of previous illnesses or bad habits.
Celebrating “round” anniversaries of family life, meetings with family and friends.
Feeling fit with a combination of life experience and energy.

60 years and older

Retirement.
The ability to travel by choosing your own routes.
Now is the time to focus on your own hobbies and interests.
You can work only for your own pleasure.
The ability to appreciate every moment in life has come.
Finally, you can relax: you no longer need to prove anything to anyone.
You can gain new knowledge and look for like-minded people in your hobby.
The appearance of grandchildren or great-grandchildren.
There is time to pay due attention to your health.
Getting married.

What is noteworthy is that one of the key factors of happiness is love and marriage- recalled representatives of all age categories, although they assessed the significance of romantic feelings differently. Another interesting detail: the majority of respondents noted that although they have a strong feeling of nostalgia for the events of their youth, they still became happier with age.

Those who considered themselves generally unhappy in life, it turned out to be a little - only 10% of the total. Almost half of the respondents rated their lives as happy overall, while another 40% noted that they were only equally happy. And one of the most important secrets of happiness, according to scientists, is the ability to appreciate the joys of every age, do not regret missed opportunities and do not torment yourself with memories of mistakes made...