Let's meet! A smart proposal to win a girl

Don't say that you're madly in love and can't live without your beauty. But if this is the case, you are very lucky: today you will learn how to propose to a girl.

Forget about stupid phrases and other failures, because this must be done without words!

Don't ask her out if...

In fact, you don’t always need to approach a girl and tell her “let’s date.” Even more, in 75% of cases it is simply not necessary. In order not to make a mistake and not to ruin your relationship with your lady, see if you belong to this category of men:

You realize that the girl doesn't like you

Doing crazy things for women is beautiful and sometimes effective, but not in your case. If a girl doesn't pay any attention to you at all, and you can't get her out of your head, forget about offering her a relationship. She will refuse you and it will only hurt your pride.

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If you think that such an act as a proposal will make her look at you differently, you are mistaken. First, you need to go through all the preliminary stages of a relationship: establishing contact, dating, seducing - and only then can you make her your girlfriend.

On the first date

You met a girl and asked her out on a date. You communicate well and you understand that you would like a relationship with her. What are you doing? You say: “We feel so good together. Will you be my girlfriend?” How does the girl feel at this time? She is simply confused and confused - you are a guy whom she only recently noticed, who has not yet earned much credit and has not yet become loved. Naturally, she will be afraid of such sudden pressure and you will not only not have a relationship with her, but there will not be a second date.

The girl's reaction will be something like this:

You are already together

If your relationship started on its own: you already spend a lot of time together, kiss, trust each other. Maybe you almost no longer go for walks separately and cannot live without each other. But you didn’t offer to meet her - what should you do? Nothing - you are already dating and after all this, your proposal will seem at least strange or stupid to the girl.

Do you know what girls expect in this case? Confessions! She already knows that you are together, but she doesn't yet know how serious it is. But your confession will put everything in its place - you are committed to a serious relationship.

You're not 15 anymore

If you are already an adult guy who has experience in relationships and knows how to seduce girls, forget about the phrase “let’s date.” This is the lot of schoolchildren, teenagers and some students who are not confident in themselves.

You can't do without an offer when...

There are situations when asking to meet is simply necessary. And if you don’t tell the girl these cherished words, you simply risk losing her or constantly being in painful uncertainty:

There is no clarity in your relationship

So you seem to have close physical contact and spend time together, and then she leaves you, goes to the club and freely flirts (or worse) with other guys. What's happening? It’s just that your relationship has very vague boundaries: you are not a guy and a girl, but you are not strangers either. In such a situation, everyone perceives this connection in a way that is convenient for them: you may think that you are in a relationship, but she simply will not take it seriously, thinking that this is another affair. If this happens, go ahead and propose a relationship to the girl. Express your desire to be with her, make her give a positive answer. Thus, she silently promises to be faithful and devoted to you.

Love works wonders

If you have strong feelings for a girl and want her to know about it, you can amaze her with a beautiful proposal. If you see that she also really likes you and you have already been on a date, act beautifully and originally. Even an adult guy can make such a proposal, because his goal is not so much to establish clear boundaries in your relationship, but rather to aspire to evoke the best emotions in your beloved, associations with you and make the day when you became a couple special for her. This is a kind of symbolic touch in the development of your story.

If you are teenagers

Finally, we come to the main thing - the proposal to date is the most important and significant for teenagers. And if you are one of them, this article is just for you. It is very important for school-age girls that you say the cherished “Will you be my girlfriend?” Perhaps this will be the first relationship for your beloved (and for you too). And of course, you still don’t know how to correctly understand each other’s gestures, you don’t know how to correctly grasp energy messages, hints and other little things. Therefore, it is especially important to express your feelings through words and actions. And if she answers you “Yes,” know that she is in love and proud that she now has you.

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Soil preparation

You can propose to a girl only when you feel a connection between you, when you both feel comfortable alone with each other. If a girl continues to avoid or ignore you, it’s too early to act. A situation where you are getting closer and closer can happen by itself, but it can also require your deliberate actions.

When do you see each other often?

If you study in the same class or in the same group, then it is much easier for you to win her attention. But remember, before you propose to her, she should go on at least a couple of dates with you. In order to get closer to a girl, you can try the following maneuvers:

Stand out with something good, such as high marks, helping others, etc.
Ask her to work on a project with you. It could also be any other school task that will help you be around her.
Try to chat with the girl, ask her some questions about herself. Also use praise: notice that she did a very good job on her essay today, for example, and tell her about it.
Try to become her friend, but at the same time keep your distance so as not to fall into the Friend Zone.
Flirt with her - you can give her compliments, look at her with interest, even straighten her hair.
If you are already communicating closely enough, you can accidentally touch her.
Invite her out for ice cream.
If your walk was successful, you can try to sit next to her in class (better if she wants it herself).
Now you can walk with her more often, making attempts to hug her.
When you feel that she is ready, kiss her.
Now you can ask her to meet, because you have already become close and she is just waiting for your cherished words.

When it is not possible to cross paths often

If you are not around all the time, you have to organize meetings yourself. By the way, psychologists say that a person who often catches your eye is able to inspire trust and earn sympathy much faster.

The first thing you need to do is go to the places where she goes as often as possible. You should try to get closer to her - to do this you can add her as a friend on VKontakte, comment on her photos and try to communicate.

For more information on how to take her for a walk, read the article “”. And if everything worked out for you and she went for a walk with you, make these meetings permanent. Let her get used to them. And when you feel that she is as interested in you as you are, invite her to date.

On what date to propose?

According to statistics, a girl expects a proposal on the 5th-7th date. If you delay too much, she may simply lose faith and be disappointed in you and in this relationship. But proposing earlier is also not recommended, because the first 2-3 meetings will only help you determine the girl’s attitude.

How to propose to meet correctly

If a girl willingly agrees to meetings and leaves them happy and inspired, then the moment of proposal has come. In order to do everything right, pay attention to the following things:

Your appearance

Even if you are not going to do anything special - you just want to hug her tenderly and tell her that you want to see her as your girlfriend, still take care of her appearance. At such a crucial moment, you must be beautiful and well-groomed, so that she does not doubt for a minute the correctness of her choice. Of course, you shouldn’t dress like a knight from old fairy tales - you’re not going to get married. Be more beautiful than usual, but don't overdo it either.

Meeting point

The meeting place depends on how you want to propose to her. This could be a park, a cozy cafe, a trip to some beautiful or special place. But keep in mind that during the proposal you should not be interrupted by loud noise, and the girl should feel comfortable.

Flowers, gifts...

Don't buy perfume or other gifts that may simply not suit her. Get by with an inexpensive gift in the form of a flower, a small souvenir or sweets. In fact, you can do without all this, but the girl will be more pleased if you decide to back up your proposal with a small gift.

Your words

Remember that the main thing is sincerity. You must clearly and warmly explain to the girl how you feel about her and what you want from her. Girls simply love specifics, when after a conversation you don’t have to guess what you wanted to say. Emphasize what you like about her, speak gently but confidently.

If you choose poems or template SMS for her, don’t forget to add something from yourself at the end. Let the girl feel that you didn’t just copy and paste this text without even reading it completely. For example, at the end of the verse write: “I really feel all this about you, and I want you to be with me.”

A few simple rules:

Be confident and persistent

You shouldn’t give up as soon as it seems to you that the girl has cooled down a little towards you. You must prepare her for the proposal using all your strength, charm and perseverance. Don’t overdo it with perseverance, but you won’t be able to do without it either.

Follow the girl's demands

If you are already in close contact and you are preparing to propose, pay attention to what the girl requires from you. If she is offended that you didn’t call her even once yesterday, it means she requires you to call every day. And you must fulfill this by showing her that she is truly dear to you. If the girl doesn’t care, most likely she’s not that interested in you.

Speak

Girls love with their ears and don’t like to guess about your feelings. You are a man and you must be brave: say out loud all the good things that you think about her and what you feel.

Say these words already: “Let’s meet”

So, you decided to confess your feelings to her and propose to date her. You have already figured out where you will take her and now all you have to do is decide what you will say and wait for the right moment.

Moment

It’s best to start talking when you’re already standing next to her, she’s in your arms and you’re kissing her. When you reach the peak of romance, just calmly tell her what you intended. You can whisper it in her ear, but not so quietly that she won’t hear it at all.

You can, holding her hands and looking into her eyes, confidently reveal all your cards to her.

Phrases

It’s better not to say the phrase “Let’s meet” - it sounds terribly banal and somehow stupid. You just need to modify and embellish it a little. Combine a compliment, a suggestion and an expression of your feelings into one. You could say something like this:

“We have become so close that I can no longer imagine my life without you. Will you agree to be my girlfriend?

“You are the first one who made me feel like this - worried, confused and in love. But I really like it. I want you to be my girlfriend"

“The time we spend together are the best moments for me. I really want this to happen as often as possible, so I would like to see you as my girlfriend.”

Of course, your phrase may be completely different... and it shouldn’t be like that - you are a special person and your girl is also special. Just try to express what you feel in beautiful words.

Invite her to meet nicely

If you think this is nonsense, I will try to convince you otherwise:

This will change my opinion about you

Of course, if a girl doesn’t love you and she doesn’t even like you, no matter what you do, it’s useless. But if she only has a little doubt about you and you need to make the final blow, surprise her with a beautiful confession and she will give in.

It will make you special

If you are no longer a schoolboy or a teenager, a beautiful proposal may still be useful to you. No matter how old a girl is, she always expects specific actions and beautiful confessions, and if you give her this, your relationship will become especially important and valuable for her.

How to choose the right method

Everything is simple here: if a girl has a calm character, is a romantic and gentle person, then the recognition should match her. This could be various romantic dinners, rose petals, etc.

If the girl is bright, extravagant and active, give her recognition with the same set of characteristics. Let it be something fun and unforgettable. This could be a trip to another city that she wanted to visit. Take her to a crazy attraction, a huge dolphinarium, etc. And at the end of the entertainment, say that it was all for her and make your proposal.

Another note for you: do not use gifts as a way to get a girl. This can easily influence a mercantile person, but a good, decent girl will feel like a debtor and this will not make her very comfortable. You don't want her to go out with you just out of politeness, do you?

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