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. It is very difficult for her to leave her husband and family. She can endure her disgusted husband for many years with all her might. However, sooner or later, if she is not satisfied with family life, she will take a step and leave.

The Cancer woman is very attached to people. She is able to live for a long time, hoping for a miracle, while she will tolerate her husband’s not very good behavior towards herself. You can negotiate with a Cancer woman. Apparently, you didn’t do this, which is why the breakup happened. Women of this zodiac sign are ready to sacrifice themselves, to adapt to a man, but if you do not appreciate her sacrifices and patience, she will leave someday.

Most likely, the reason for your separation was jealousy. A woman of this zodiac sign is very jealous. Sometimes it is simply impossible to withstand her unreasonable jealousy. She will control your actions, views on the street, she will go through your phone, read your letters, SMS, look for evidence of your fidelity. Precisely fidelity, because all her actions are aimed at making sure of your integrity. Men can be extremely harsh and rude with Pisces women, thus reacting to their jealousy. To the Pisces woman, such a reaction seems wrong; she gets offended and leaves if this is repeated more than once. The Pisces woman believes that you should not hide anything from her. Therefore, when a husband tries to snatch the phone from his Pisces wife’s hands or hides personal correspondence, she will regard this as cheating.

If you broke up for this reason, you need to show your Cancer wife that you have become more tender, more faithful, and more attentive. When you walk down the street with her, not a single glance of yours should fall on the female representatives. If this happens, you will arouse suspicions in your wife that you have remained the same connoisseur of female beauty, which does not suit her at all. Even flirting on social networks with a Cancer wife is not permissible. There are families in which, in front of the wife’s eyes, the husband can conduct love correspondence with strangers on the Internet. At the same time, the wife takes this calmly, not considering it cheating, because the husband is sitting next to her, and not somewhere else. A Cancer wife cannot treat her husband’s online flirting this way. She regards his every glance, any correspondence, SMS as treason, especially those containing kind words addressed to strangers. If you want to get your Cancer wife back, forget about all the women in the world. She should become your one and only, and it is advisable to tell her about this, and more often.

It must be said that the Cancer woman is able to tolerate her man for many years, while he may not even realize that she is putting up with him with all her might. By the way, it is the Cancer woman who can live for a long time, being dissatisfied with life, with a non-working husband, a drunkard husband, a slacker husband. If you pay more attention to your wife, you will notice her cooling. In such a situation, the wife stops sharing her plans, dreams, ideas with you, and becomes more withdrawn. You should have noticed everything in time and started doing at least something. You need to remember what you were like before and become that old person - perhaps romantic, perhaps caring, perhaps wealthy. Every family has its own problems. Nobody knows them better than you.

You probably already understand from the title that in our article we will tell you how men born under the zodiac sign Cancer behave. "And what?

The same horoscope that can be found on every website, and which cannot be trusted!” – you may object. And perhaps you are right, because among our journalists there are also many who are skeptical about the characteristics of the zodiac signs, they say, each person is an individual and cannot be “driven” into a template.

Therefore, we decided to conduct a small experiment. It consisted in the fact that we did not look at all into the annals of astrologers, where you can find a description of the characteristic behavior of all signs of the zodiac, but simply read on various sites the opinions of girls who had experience in relationships with men of this sign. And, later, when we collected all the data and compared it with the book that was published in the 90s, alas, we were convinced that the pattern did exist.

It is the main pitfalls inherent in a man born under the sign of Cancer that we will now share with you. So, what to expect from Cancer...

… In love

Oddly enough, Cancer in Love will not tell you about his love right away, he will wait until you understand it yourself. He sincerely believes that his beloved woman should figure this out on her own and will be the first to say so. Maybe they really think so, or maybe the whole point is that they are simply afraid of non-reciprocal feelings.

Since Cancers are also a timid sign, and because of this they are afraid of refusals and failures. But after he hears that very cherished phrase from you and answers it, he will talk about his love very often. Even more often than you would like, because a Cancer in love will have only one desire - to prove his sincere feelings, despite the fact that there is no urgent need for this. Under the influence of romantic feelings, Cancers are very attentive and sweet. But as soon as Cancer cools down, he immediately loses such character traits (or, perhaps, hides them under a shell?).

Despite the fact that among the girls there were those who stated that the Cancers did not give them any gifts, the vast majority were still delighted with the frequency and variety of flowers and gifts given to them. Who knows, maybe they offended him in some way? After all, only an offended Cancer in love is somehow stingy in pleasing his beloved.

Cancer gives compliments as a Cancer should: timidly and blushing. But he simply cannot help but show the girl that he admires her. He himself, without any reservations on the part of his beloved, will be able to change himself and his habits, so that it is more convenient for his woman. And at the same time, he will not consider himself a victim or a hero who has broken his own stereotypes. And, moreover, he will not blame his soulmate for this.

It goes without saying that with this kind of character it is very easy to make a Cancer man worry and miss you, his beloved. All you have to do is not answer his call a couple of times or move away a little from him - and that’s it, Cancer no longer retreats back, but rushes about like a tiger in a cage. But, as the practice of our girls shows, there is no need to abuse this. And it’s even better not to do this at all, since this is a very sentimental sign that needs confirmation of reciprocal feelings, and not neglect of them.

But, as you know, every barrel of honey has its own wasps. And Cancer is no exception. The fact is that a Cancer in love behaves very jealously in love. Even the slightest attention from outside on his woman is very unpleasant for him. An innocent compliment given to you by one of your male friends will not, of course, become a reason for a breakup, but it will be perceived very painfully by him.

In general, (and this is one of the few discrepancies with the “official” book source) Cancer men behave very jealously towards the object of their passion. They can easily check personal notes, contacts book or read messages. But, this only happens when he feels that he has a reason for this. Maybe just not give him this very reason? Because, in principle, Cancers do not like conflicts and quarrels. He believes that people who love each other are simply obliged to always seek a compromise. But you don’t even have to be jealous of him. Cancers usually do not give reasons for jealousy. And it's very nice!

...after betrayal.

Of course, he may not give a reason, but anything can happen in life. And how does a Cancer man behave after cheating? And for what reasons does he change at all? If a Cancer man falls in love, then this is reliable and he will live only for the sake of his family, without succumbing to temptations from the outside.

Cancers usually cheat only out of spite, in revenge. And such behavior on his part does not bode well for you, because trust will be lost for him. However, if suddenly this happened not because of “revenge,” then Cancer will simply blame itself and behave accordingly. In general, Cancers are very reluctant to go “to the side,” and many “contactees” agreed on this.

… married.

And how do you even marry a Cancer man? Well, in this matter, the above article about a Cancer in love will help you figure it out. If you manage to win his love, then you won’t have to marry him to yourself - he himself will strive to legitimize his rights to you. But first of all, attractive external data will help you attract the attention of a Cancer man.

However, this will mean absolutely nothing if you do not turn out to be a good friend and an intelligent interlocutor. In your desire to marry this zodiac sign, think carefully, because if you are a flighty person, then failure in marriage will remain a sore and very vulnerable place for him for a long time. And most importantly, remember that Cancer needs complete reciprocity in feelings. So don’t even think about showing indifference to him, even as a joke. In marriage, Cancers become good family men, they love and care for their children very much.

This is how they are, Cancer men. That is, the main pattern of their behavior. Of course, reading this article, you should understand that all these qualities of the zodiac sign can vary in one direction or another. And in conclusion, we will give a couple of recommendations from a professional astrologer to some specific zodiac signs on how to conquer this ever-retreating sign.

Cancer - Taurus

Of course, there is no definite answer to how to win a Taurus woman and a Cancer man. And in principle it cannot be. You yourself must look at everything according to the circumstances, based on the character of the man himself and everything described above here. First of all, remember that you should not only look attractive, but also become a good friend and interlocutor.

Taurus are usually very stubborn and proud, so hide your stubbornness, because, by the way, Cancers themselves sometimes really like to insist on their own. Praise him more often, he will appreciate it, believe me. Due to his sign, Cancer is very attached to his mother, so treat her with respect. And if you are close enough to the object of your desire and are part of his family, then take a couple of recipes from her, and in general, try to be on very warm terms with her. Your Cancer man will love this.

As a rule, in such a union Cancer may have more problems than with another zodiac sign. And, as a rule, its strength will depend on you, Taurus woman! However, if it takes place, it will be very strong and durable.

Scorpio – Cancer

But it will be quite easy for a Scorpio man to conquer a Cancer woman, because the stars themselves, according to the astrologer, are on his side. Scorpio needs care and comfort, which the Cancer woman can provide him with. How else? After all, she is a zealous and diligent housewife. That's just

Scorpio always needs to remember that they should not release their “sting,” because Cancer women, avoiding conflicts in every possible way, will accumulate grievances within themselves. Well, then they will simply “give up” back, literally backing away from you. Women of this zodiac sign can forgive for a long time and a lot, but if their patience scales overflow, they leave forever. And it will be impossible to return them.

To win Cancer, Scorpio needs to show how dear she is to him and how much she means to him. Like Cancer men, women need constant proof of love; they simply need to feel loved and needed. Otherwise, they simply hide under their shell, and nothing can be done.

Give your beloved compliments more often, do not forget to praise her, help her even in some trifle, and believe me, this will not go unnoticed by her. She may “hide” from you for some time, looking closely at you, but this is all only because of the timidity inherent in this sign. Do not put pressure on her under any circumstances, be romantic and attentive with her.

How long-lasting such an alliance will be largely depends on Scorpio. Because only his incontinence and self-will can “poison” Cancer, who will be unable to cope with the feeling of resentment.

Famous Cancer - Tom Cruise. In addition to him, Sylvester Stallone, Tom Hanks, Harrison Ford, and George Michael were born under this zodiac sign.

It’s unlikely that anyone can boast that a Cancer man is an open book for him; as a rule, he diligently hides his secrets even from his best friends, let alone casual acquaintances. He is not known for his calmness, but at the same time, he quite often hangs a sign on the door that says “I’ve gone into my own head, I won’t be back soon.” Cancers, as a rule, are idealists and sentimental dreamers. This zodiac sign is ruled by the Moon, depending on its phase. Cancers either plunge into the abyss of despair or rise to unimaginable heights of euphoria. They have the gift of making other people move in one direction or another.

At the first meeting, it may seem that Cancer is relaxed, maybe even a little loose and not averse to flirting. But this is the very case when the first impression is deceptive. Next time he may be gloomy and unapproachable, then capricious and stubborn - guessing Cancer’s mood is like trying to get rich by playing in a casino. There are chances, but they are not very great. Cancer is an incredibly complex creature with changeable moods, which clearly sees even tiny specks in someone else's eye, without noticing in its own a log of such a size that it would be enough to build a country cottage. It's never easy or boring with him.

The Cancer man wants to believe that he stands for gender equality and feminism, but in fact, deep down, he is pleased to feel like a defender of the “weaker” sex. Usually he is polite and gallant, sophisticated and in some way (not his clothes) reminiscent of a gentleman of the old school. Cancer prefers beautiful women, but his demands do not end there. The impression of female charm should not fade when the beauty opens her mouth. Smart, beautiful women (Komsomol members, athletes) are drawn to Cancers like a magnet. However, it is very difficult, almost impossible, to meet “crayfish” expectations.

This man needs an ideal. Cancer will prefer to silently retreat into his shell if, from his point of view, something has gone “wrong” and is unlikely to risk discussing the reasons for his sudden disappointment with the one who attracted him most recently.

Cancers love to eat well and know their way around a drink, but don't expect them to know how to choose the right clothes. Cancer prefers comfortable things, he has a lot of things that he treats like his best friends: “I went to the Moscow Virtuosi concert in these shoes” or “This sweater remembers me in my student years.” Don’t even try to quietly throw away anything from his wardrobe - otherwise you will face a big scandal.

Cancers love to talk, never mince words, and sometimes have the gift of persuasion. If during a discussion someone adheres to a different, non-cancerous, point of view, this man will not remain silent until he convinces his opponent. At the same time, Cancer knows how to listen. One cannot deny his ability to help others solve their problems. His sharp analytical mind is able to cope with even the most complex tasks.

He does not like to take risks - he even prefers to earn money exclusively through conservative methods.

Cancer is very sensitive, timid and sentimental, has difficulty parting with old friends, work and cities - to the best of his ability and ability, he resists possible moves and changes in general.

Cancers are able to maintain friendships throughout their lives; they love alumni reunions and find something to talk about with classmates they haven’t seen for several years.

If there is an opportunity not to change anything, Cancer will definitely take advantage of it. This approach applies to all areas of his life - from home to work. This man is incredibly dependent on the past, he is connected with it by thousands of the smallest details and details that no one except him remembers.

He, like no other zodiac sign, needs constant regular confirmation that you love him. You shouldn't have a light affair with Cancer - he takes love too seriously to become a worthy candidate for one-night stand. Cancer demands from his beloved approximately the same thing that he himself is ready to give her: physical and spiritual intimacy, fidelity. He believes in true love, capable of overcoming any obstacles - this is his personal, albeit somewhat unusual, recipe for maintaining peace of mind.

Cancers rarely cheat - they prefer the comfort and warmth of their home to dubious pleasures on the side. They are prone to long-term relationships, but if a breakup does occur, they will not be sad for too long, but will find a new object for their feelings. But if you once won his heart, have no doubt - he will remember you all his life.

The only thing he really needs is approval and encouragement for his actions. If a woman tells Cancer what a wonderful lover he is, he will do everything not to disappoint her. If a woman is smart enough to make him believe that he is introducing her to the secrets of sex, he will open up the road to orgasm step by step for her. Cancer is unusually vulnerable - you should not comment on its actions, interrupting them with the remark that you already know this, have practiced it before. Not only will he be offended, but he will immediately hide back into his shell.

He is condescending and assertive at the same time. In order to get pleasure, it is enough to simply let Cancer “manage” the process. At the very beginning of a love affair with Cancer, avoid in every possible way any manifestations of vulgarity, rudeness and prosaic life. This man tends to idealize his partner and any “fallout” from the role he has invented may even seem exciting, but it is unlikely to force Cancer to prolong sexual (as well as any other) communication. Over time, his tremulous nature can come to terms with those things that would have shocked him before. In order for Cancer’s sexual interest not to cool down, it needs to be constantly “warmed up” by demonstrating one’s own feelings. As soon as he feels that emotions have disappeared from intimacy, he will immediately give your relationship a reverse.

Cancer is not one of those who sometimes forget about foreplay, rushing to move directly to the process of intercourse. It is very important to him that not only he himself, but also the woman next to him was happy. Cancers are not the kind of men who consider sexual neglect of what their partner experiences as proof of their masculinity. On the contrary, from the Cancer's point of view, there is nothing more important than a simultaneous orgasm, which is further proof of how strong love is.

Cancer's fantasy is not limited to the bedroom - maybe he won't dare to have extreme sex, but at home he will use all the more or less suitable furnishings. Unlike Gemini, Cancer has not only heard about the clitoris, but also has a clear idea of ​​where it is and masterfully masters the art of delivering pleasure with the help of his fingers and tongue.

Another technique that Cancers often practice is love “Spanish style,” when the penis is placed between the partner’s breasts and moves along such a trajectory that the tip of her tongue is able to reach its head. The chest-tongue combination is extremely exciting for this man.

Cancer has an excellent memory - he always remembers what exactly and in what sequence he must do so that his beloved sees the sky in diamonds. It seems that he himself gets an orgasm solely because he was able to give it to someone else. Often, Cancers embody their teenage fantasies in adult sexual life.

He is excited by exquisite lingerie; if Cancer has homosexual inclinations, then he himself will be happy to try it on, turning sex into a one-man show.

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Cancer man is silent

Seemingly paradoxical behavior - from social modesty to external ostentation - is inherent in the various phases of Cancer's character. When he is left to himself and his natural inclinations, he can easily become an idle dreamer or a mystic. But when external conditions impel him to action, he shows great persistence in achieving goals. Cancer is thrifty and diligent and has a reputation as a skilled trader. who can take everything from any kind of craft.

An outstanding character trait is love for home and family. Nothing irritates Cancer more than disharmony in his personal life. If he feels that his partner does not love him or that other family members neglect him, he becomes gloomy and may get sick from this.

No other sign of the Zodiac has a greater potential for love than Cancer; no one can be more affectionate and playful.

He is in strong maternal dependence, so success in life is possible if a man is able to resolve the problem of relationships with his mother.

In his youth, Cancer is a romantic, dreaming of ideal love. Imagination usually outstrips life experience. If his first passion turns out to be mutual, then the feelings acquire depth and he becomes a magnificent, gentle lover.

He is ideal in bed if he finds emotional content in every sexual relationship. He expects exceptional love, amazing, supportive, and in return gives himself completely.

This romantic can be a tyrant, an owner. As a rule, Cancer, having experienced disappointment, seeks consolation from his mother or experiences it alone.

A Cancer man can be calm and peaceful, and his love can be faithful and unshakable. This will make a devoted husband and father who lives only for his family.

The other type is capricious, sophisticated, tormented by mysteries about his nature. He wanders from one woman to another in search of someone similar to his idealized mother, or falls into a fatal irresponsible feeling. He may find a woman more experienced and older than himself who will be able to identify his potential capabilities , mainly lyrical and philosophical talents. He is able to turn the heads of young girls. However, he abandons them as soon as they tire of him. This does not evoke in him a feeling of compassion, since Cancer is not very predisposed to him. He is distinguished by selfishness, flavored with a fair amount of snobbery and self-confidence.

Although Cancer is erotic, in bed he cares only about his own satisfaction and sometimes behaves offensively and cynically. Only partners prone to masochism get real pleasure from contacts with him. He subordinates his entire sex life to caring about his own health.

Marriage is often seen by him as an attack on personal freedom. He is not created for marriage, since he strives to suppress everyone around him. His wife is an unhappy, downtrodden creature. The picture changes if he is taken into the hands of an even more powerful and cruel woman.

In order not to lose Cancer, you cannot:

- make fun of his romanticism;

- show coldness in relations with him;

criticize his loved ones and, above all, swear words;

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All his life he is looking for the one who is ideal precisely in His understanding.

Cancer man in love

For a Cancer woman, the main thing is loyalty and devotion. A well-groomed, attractive, but not glamorous girl is their ideal. Selfish, cold, loving only herself, who waits for a man to take the initiative, but does not take any steps towards him, silent about her feelings, alas, is not their type and is unlikely to receive his favor.

Wise, strong, children-loving women, the Cancer man is waiting for you!

He loves it when you tell him about your love three hundred times a day. Tell him how wonderful he is, that he is the most charming and attractive, this makes him “flutter on wings.” A woman’s attention is as necessary to him as air.

Marriage for him is once and for life. He is strongly attached, much more than many men, to his family, to his wife, to his children. However, before deciding on a serious relationship and offering you his hand and heart, a Cancer man will think a hundred times and weigh all the pros and cons; he cannot easily decide on such a serious step. But rest assured, if you get married, he will carry you in his arms all his life, both literally and figuratively. In family life with him, you will always be loved and calm.

The Cancer man is not jealous, but try not to flirt with other men, he is very touchy, he can be offended by your slightest inattention to him, and he will withdraw into himself and sulk at you like a mouse at cereal.

Every anniversary of yours, and sometimes even every month spent together, your Cancer Man will remember and congratulate himself and you on such a significant event, not to mention your birthday, rest assured, He remembers it.

He gives gifts with pleasure, tries to pamper, but, again, due to his character, everything is in moderation, you will not be very spoiled, my dears.

Cancers are the best men in the world! That's for sure! My husband is cancer - and it’s hard to imagine anyone more caring! But my cancer is very generous, unlike what is written here, he does not feel sorry for anything for a truly beloved woman! On the contrary, she is always just waiting for a reason to please me!

I’m Cancer but I didn’t suit Capricorn Not - fate Although I was faithful and she wanted to go for a walk

I'm Capricorn. My ex-husband and my second man are Cancers. Both walked in a terrible way, did not miss a single skirt, mainly with those women who hung themselves on them.

You are probably writing here about other Cancer men))), my husband is a Cancer, he is terribly jealous and offends me constantly ((

My husband is a Cancer, the best man in the world

we can say that the zadiac sign does not always determine the character of a person, upbringing and character play a lot, however, there is complete similarity with what is written, or at least partially, so it is difficult to judge a person by one zadiac sign)

My beloved Cancer man. There were many men before him... And I want to say he is a real treasure. No sign can make a woman happy the way he does. But. One condition is to appreciate it and not silently, but out loud and often say how much you appreciate it and don’t forget to give thanks!

I'm Libra, he's Cancer. We've been together for 15 years. It's like behind a stone wall. If you don't get impudent, I'll point my finger at something and buy it. Pampers, loves, controls, is jealous

My man is a Cancer, very sensitive, gentle, caring. Rudeness and coldness only repels him, but tenderness and kindness are your weapons for conquering this zodiac sign. In sex - great! True, if you offend, you won’t know which goat to approach him, at such moments it’s better not to touch and let it cool down, he’ll click his claws as soon as he feels that he’s losing.

Tell me, please, did I come up with everything or not... what's going on?

Cancer men are such revelers as the world has never seen! And also very greedy and secretive... and why are they needed then with such an arsenal?!

Each person is unique in terms of character, however, having information about your man's Zodiac Sign, you can better understand the characteristics of his personality. This way you will have a better chance of liking him and understanding how to build your relationship.

If your man is Cancer, it is important to note right away that this Zodiac Sign is characterized by immense love for family. Of course, this does not mean that people of other Signs cannot value family life, parents or their children. No, it’s just that almost all men born under the sign of Cancer are family people. They are predisposed to this lifestyle and truly love it.

For a woman, family always comes first, but that’s not all. A man of this Zodiac Sign is not tough enough for all ladies. Let's take a closer look at the possible character traits and secrets of a Cancer man to help you win his heart.

5 Cancer secrets you should know

Secret one: A man born under the constellation Cancer loves to be more than just a father or husband. Very often his dream is complete and comprehensive management of the family. If you are a woman who wants to take full part in raising children and managing the family budget on an equal basis with her chosen one, then most likely you risk being disappointed. Cancers expect obedience from their loved ones.

Secret number two: If your man is Cancer, then there will be no shortage of affection and love. Yes, many Cancers take on the responsibility of complete management, but maybe this is for the better? They are always busy, but family is the center of the universe for them, so they give all their warmth to their family. They are like a warm blanket that covers you in the evenings and always gives you a feeling of calm. You want to entrust yourself and all family affairs to such people.

Third secret is about following the rules. Yes, Cancers are gentle and pleasant, but if in childhood their mother did not show them what real romance is, then they themselves are unlikely to learn it. Don’t try to change these people, because you won’t succeed anyway. It is better not to argue with them and do not force your opinion on them on any issue.

Mystery Four: They are calm and often not impulsive, so for many of you, a strong crush or complete indifference on the part of a Cancer man will look the same. The secret is that they respect straightforwardness; ask them about your feelings and they will happily tell you the truth. Try to be open and honest with them.

The last secret Cancer men are his memory. Revenge is alien to this Zodiac Sign, but they always remember grievances. They may forget their best friend's name or how to put the kettle on, but they never take offense. Based on the previous secret, we can conclude - sincerely ask for forgiveness and do not expect that your offense or mistake will be forgotten. Everything can be corrected only through repentance.

So, the main secret of happy love with a Cancer man is to be honest with him and with yourself. In any case, this person will most likely be able to become your guide to the world of warm love and family comfort. Therefore, if you realize that you are ready for this, then go towards happiness and don't forget to press the buttons and

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Cancer is the only sign that can find mutual understanding with everyone, but it finds special happiness with Scorpio, Virgo, Capricorn, and Pisces.

From June 22 to July 22 – Time of Cancer. This zodiac sign is ruled by the Moon. This fickle planet, changing phases 4 times during its cycle (28 days), makes Cancers - their wards - very emotional, easily moody, sensitive and sensual people.

When they fall into a good lunar cycle, they look like a fairy baby with a curl on its forehead, who will be lovely if she is in a good mood, but terrible if she is in a bad mood. Cancers are very shy and fear rejection more than all other signs combined. They are sensitive and emotionally vulnerable, indecisive and not as aggressive in love affairs as men of other signs. They are ideal in bed, but they require emotional content in every sexual encounter. They expect exceptional love, understanding, amazing, supportive, in return they will give themselves entirely and surround their partner with tenderness.

For Cancers, life is boring and empty without love. They love selflessly, completely surrendering to their feelings. They tend to subordinate themselves entirely to the character of their partner, and this is not difficult for them, since they have very developed intuition. They are ideal if they feel loved. And they are the hardest people in life if they do not feel love, while they themselves live a difficult and painful life. The reason for their unhappiness is shyness, painful vulnerability, resentment and a highly developed sense of possessiveness. In a romantic relationship with Cancer, it is necessary to abandon excessive curiosity about his inner world while you have only known each other for a short time. Cancers need the confidence that they are communicating with a person who can shower them with tender care and love.

For deeper relationships, you need to learn to communicate on a soul level. Cancers do not like it when people make fun of them, especially in front of people. If you want to maintain a relationship for a long time, avoid putting pressure on him, act with the help of persuasion and affection. In their youth, Cancers are romantics, dreaming of ideal love. Imagination is ahead of life experience.

Partnerships are of great importance for Cancer - this is a support for him in all matters. He himself has a special sense of patronage. He is usually shy, but when he is in a circle of like-minded people, he opens up like a tender lily after the rain, surrounding you with care and deep understanding. At the same time, being in his company, you intuitively feel that this man is a defenseless child who needs maternal care, support and tenderness.

Deep down, Cancer suffers deeply if there is no one next to him who could come to his aid at any moment and stand guard over his safety. He remains a child all his life, he always needs care. He is an eternal dreamer and romantic. He believes, and quite sincerely, that his chosen one will want to give him all of herself without reserve, will not only appreciate his undoubted merits, but will also come to terms with his shortcomings. Heartache over love problems and strong feelings are not for him. Cancer can be compared rather to a stream of water, slowly flowing along its bed and only sometimes falling like a stormy waterfall... Gusts of passion are good for him from time to time, he will not withstand prolonged tension, a constant storm of feelings.

A woman who has dealt with Cancer at least once in her life knows what real tenderness is. A man born under this sign has all the qualities to make an impressionable woman with a subtle nature happy. First of all, Cancer expects warmth; it is extremely pleasant for him to meet a warm-hearted and sincerely friendly person. He will feel disarmed in front of such a woman - affectionate, devoted, loving almost like a mother. He will want to see in her his wife, sister, mother and lover at the same time. When Cancer gives his love, it seems that his feelings are those of an innocent child who does not know lies and deception. If he loves, then he gives his whole heart, his whole soul without a trace. He believes that as soon as he exposes all his weaknesses to the object of his adoration, there can be no question of being deceived or offended.

If the woman he loves does not live up to his trust, he will withdraw into himself and will not want to leave his “shell.” He will become secretive and begin to doubt whether he should even reveal his feelings, thoughts and dreams to anyone. Under no circumstances should Cancer be wounded, although this is easy to do - he does not know how to defend himself at all. He experiences every action, every thoughtless word addressed to him very painfully - some insignificant remark can greatly offend him.

Each manifestation of cynicism, self-interest or cruelty gradually destroys his idea of ​​​​ideal love. After all, he himself is ready for complete dedication, for absolutely selfless love, not demanding anything in return except love. Only such a sublime feeling enriches him spiritually and gives him faith in goodness and the meaning of life. For Cancer, disappointment can be a blow from which it is difficult for him to recover. He withdraws into himself, plunging into a fantasy world where he can dream of ideal love. He will prefer this particular path and will not look for another that could lead to the fulfillment of his dreams, because he is so afraid of being disappointed again! Cancer does not like it when they do not understand and accept him, and do not show him leniency. If criticism of his actions or character is added to this, he simply will not tolerate it - already he is complex, unsure of himself and suffers terribly, not feeling safe.

Cancers can live both the richest and most painful lives - it all depends on whether they were able to solve the problem of their relationship with their mother. Why with your mother? The Moon, their patron, symbolizes the mother in astrology. This explains the strong dependence of Cancers on their mother. Cancers rarely marry at an early age, as they have difficulty leaving their parents' home and are too attached to their mother. The success of Cancer as an individual depends on whether he was able to resolve the problem of his relationship with his mother, whether he was able to free himself or whether he remained dependent on her. If Cancers do get married in early youth, they are rarely married later than 35 years. This is a critical age for Cancers. Rarely do Cancers live with the same spouse after 35 years.

If the woman whom Cancer met along the way considers motherhood the most important thing in life, if all her thoughts are aimed at creating a family, Cancer will very quickly come to the conclusion that this is his ideal. A strong family union promises him the desired sense of security. At the same time, it is very important that his chosen one remembers his psychological and emotional dependence on his family: good relations with his close and distant relatives will once again convince him of the correctness of his choice. Naturally, his mother plays a primary role in this sense - it is on her that his decision ultimately depends.

But even in this case, Cancer, making an important decision about marriage, may feel insecure. A woman must help him cope with this task: demonstrate that she can be an exemplary housewife, a wonderful wife and - most importantly! - the magnificent mother of his future children. Cancer is created rather for life in the comfort of home, away from the intrigues and harshness of the surrounding reality. If, in addition, he is surrounded by children, this is real happiness for him! It is not suitable for performing any tasks of an “external” nature; the purpose and meaning of life in his understanding is in the family, in people close to him.

The stronger he feels his connection with them, the higher his assessment of his own existence.

Do you have the impression that Cancers are ideal lovers and spouses? Why then is there a myth in astrology that Don Juan was a Cancer? It is said about him that Cancer is a cunning merchant in love, a complete materialist, who in the economy of love stands head and shoulders above all his astrological brothers. Cancers, perhaps, can compete with Gemini in their changeability and inconstancy (Until the relationship develops into a family one, of course). And I think that Cancer Gemini will win! But we'll talk about this next time.

Cancers, depending on the time of birth, can be different. Some are very suspicious and rarely show their inner self. But if they fall in love with a woman, there is nothing that Cancers will not do to please the object of their love. They can be peaceful, calm and simple, and their love is faithful and unshakable. These people make devoted husbands and fathers who live only for their family. They are often homebodies, devoted to their loved ones, friends and family and can do almost anything for them. An emotionally mature Cancer is a wonderful father. He is fiercely protective of his wife and children. Cancer is capable of great feats for his family and children. But, oddly enough, he instinctively avoids those women who purposefully seek his support. And he is most often attracted to strong women. Life with Cancers should be based on mutual respect and sympathy. It is very important to maintain peace and tranquility in the house, to be, like him, sensitive and romantic, to remember all the significant dates in the life of the family and all household members, to appreciate delicious food and household chores.

Typically, Cancer's behavior in intimate situations is determined by some “feminine” qualities of his character. You should not suppress the individuality of Cancer, or show emotional coldness towards him. Due to his heightened sensitivity, he absolutely cannot tolerate cooling of relationships or criticism addressed to him. What will hit him hardest is criticism of his relatives, with whom, no matter what they are, he is always very closely connected emotionally, one might even say he is dependent on them. Therefore, it is impossible to destroy the authorities and ideals that have developed in his mind. If he has to, God forbid, choose between his wife and his relatives, then he may well give preference not to his wife, but to his parents, brother, etc. Therefore, in the name of love for Cancer, you should not talk about the shortcomings of his relatives - this will hurt him very much. You can’t have constant noisy parties in his house or joke about his heightened sensitivity.

Cancer is a faithful family man, delicate in character, but overly impressionable, which one day may become a very serious problem for his chosen one. Leading a calm and measured life, he may begin to irritate her with the fact that he was and remains an unadapted child, very attached to his parents. She will face the eternal problem of daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, and her husband will not be able to choose which of the two “mothers” to please. He will begin to maneuver between them, which will only complicate the situation.

He is very susceptible to the influence of others and considers the arguments that he hears at the moment to be correct, and this simply leads to paradoxical situations! The Cancer father, who madly loves his children, tries to isolate them from what he considers to be the bad influence of the environment. He will treat his wife in the same way, subconsciously trying to limit the scope of her communication, since it seems to him that any of her contacts with the world threaten their family well-being. This is his nature - he has a very strong need to feel safe, and he sees a threat to this in everything around him. This concern for safety can sometimes lead to complete isolation.

Another type of Cancer is capricious, a mystery to itself, sophisticated and ambiguous. This type wanders from woman to woman in search of his ideal. They are fickle in their affections mainly because they do not allow anyone into the depths of their feelings - the action of the love drama takes place on the surface. If these Cancers do not divorce their spouses after 35 years, this often happens due to financial dependence or love for children, but not at all out of loyalty to their spouse. Their married life exists solely for the sake of convenience, while they can secretly court young people. Of course, this type of Cancer devotes a lot of time to creating a cozy home life, they are looking for a faithful wife, and giving birth to offspring. But as soon as this is achieved, they secretly find satisfaction in their hobbies, justifying their adventures with social activities, affairs, etc.

The only way for such a Cancer to overcome sexual attraction and remain faithful is to get into a situation where this is impossible: at work, at a conference, in a hospital where he is immobile due to a cast, or in the arms of his beloved wife. He cannot be faithful unless he is connected with his wife by a common cause or work, when they constantly see each other. This type of Cancer is the most promiscuous of all the zodiac signs. Changeable in mood, he can easily find himself in a web of sexual exploits. However, by creating an attractive façade of naivety, he forces the woman to take the first step.
At the same time, these Cancers can be possessive and very jealous. These romantics can even be tyrants. They demand firm rules from their partner, which they themselves do not follow. No other sign is capable of displaying such false virtue, loyalty, sensuality and hurt feelings as Cancer when he is personally at fault. What a heart-tearing mask - those wet, sad eyes - that Cancer can put on: a little boy who has been wronged, insulted. They cannot be “put against the wall”, even if they are guilty of something. They would rather continue to lie than to admit or pay for their sins.