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Celebrating World Girls' Day, what else can we talk about than our little princesses, how they grow up and stop being mommy and daddy's daughters. In the understanding of many parents, their children should not think about puberty before the age of thirteen. Not at all! In fact, everything happens differently: not then and not in the way we often imagine.
Interested in learning about the stages of puberty and psychological maturation of girls? Human maturation is a process that includes physical development body (puberty) and the formation of a certain behavioral model characteristic of a man or woman (psychological maturity). Difficulties that arise during puberty are explained by the asynchrony of sexual and psychological maturation. There is a tendency that physical maturity occurs earlier and earlier, and appropriate behavior is formed later and later. In this regard, parents should part with the patterns that were relevant in communicating with teenagers three decades ago, and typical misconceptions, in which we so sacredly believe.
Life is full of surprises, but our children can present us with the greatest surprises, and it is simply impossible to protect yourself from them, even if you think that complete harmony, trust and mutual understanding reign in your relationship with your daughter.
- If a daughter secretly talks with her mother about what is going on in her soul and life, this is not a guarantee that she will tell absolutely everything.
- If your girl does not spend hours at the computer like other teenagers, this is not a reason to think that she only “communicates with classmates.” To chat on social networks with an adult man or watch a clip on YouTube with rather “interesting” content, one hour will be enough. Often parents prefer not to believe in the possibility of this.
- With a 99% probability, you can be sure that by the end of junior school, your daughter may have a sexually mature classmate who will constantly think, talk, correspond and communicate with boys. And your girl will certainly notice this fact. There is a second scenario, when your daughter becomes the “most mature girl” in the class.
- More and more often you will hear from your daughter about the inadequacy of older girls, as well as the stupidity and capriciousness of younger girlfriends. Such conversations will give parents confidence that they are aware of everything that is happening with their child. But in fact, they will only interfere with understanding who is your daughter’s friend and who is her enemy.
- A child’s impeccable behavior within the family does not provide any guarantee that your daughter is not capable of being cruel to her peers or being the target of bullying herself.
- Absolutely all teenagers lie, regardless of whether they are a boy or a girl. This is their way to isolate themselves and protect their world from the attacks of others, including their parents. “Maybe it will blow through” is a life slogan for almost every teenager.
No one can change anything. For parents, it is important to simply get through this period, maintaining maximum calm and not becoming embittered.
Girls 10-13 years old
What changes are happening
A 10-13 year old girl is like an ugly duckling, clumsy and shy. She cannot understand what is happening to her, and is trying to find answers to questions about what she should do with her changed body, and what place she occupies in the company of her peers. During this period, girls are obsessed with change. Many people start dyeing their hair and putting on makeup, going on diets, maybe even getting a tattoo... But most of all, something else can confuse and frighten parents. The daughter begins to realize and develop her sexuality. She understands that in order to attract attention, she does not need to make noise and show off like boys, just one languid glance from under her lowered eyelashes is enough.
The hierarchy in relationships in a group of teenage girls is unpredictable and rapidly changing. Yesterday your daughter was an outcast, subjected to all sorts of attacks, today she and yesterday’s enemies put in place someone who was popular not so long ago, and tomorrow she will experience feelings of loneliness... Among teenage girls, manifestations of kindness, tenderness and responsiveness go hand in hand hand with cruelty, betrayal and indifference. Today you are ignored and not noticed, but tomorrow you are sincerely admired. And this is not a lie, this is just how teenagers actually experience and live their friendships.
How to react
Parents should understand that it will be difficult for their daughter to be careless when she is let down and frightened by the changes that are happening to her body. At this moment, it is important to reach out to your daughter and convey that nothing terrible is happening to her, she is not sick, and everything will be fine no matter how she looks now. At first she won't believe your words, but patience and consistency will help you overcome the wall of mistrust.
For a child, parents should be a rock and support, instilling confidence that everything will pass. There is no need to rack your brains trying to understand what is happening among teenagers or look for some kind of logic in their actions. You just need to be there, without judging, without lecturing or moralizing. When you are overwhelmed with emotions, try to simply exhale and say that you see all her experiences and empathize with her, and are also ready to discuss the situation. If your daughter considers it possible, she will definitely ask you for advice.
Girls 14-16 years old
What changes are happening
The daughter’s social circle is outside the home; within her own walls, she chooses to communicate not with her parents, but with unknown people in chat rooms and social networks. Any remark or question from the parents provokes a violent reaction with rolling their eyes, abruptly ending the conversation and closing the doors to their room. Almost all of her vicious jabs and jabs are addressed to her mother.
No matter what correct views and values the parents try to instill in their daughter, now cynicism is the most correct, in her understanding, way of perceiving the world. It may seem that she feels nothing but hatred towards her parents, but this is not so. This attitude towards the world and parents is just character traits the next stage of growing up, and not the character traits of your daughter. Now all her thoughts are occupied with what will happen in the future. Although she may not voice it. She is preparing for the upcoming breakup.
How to react
A teenage girl is absolutely sure that no one can understand her. Any attempt by parents to show sympathy, protect her from wrong actions, or convey their life experience to her will not be accepted, but rather simply ridiculed. If this happens, do not insist. It’s wise to step back at this point and wait until your daughter is open to contact.
How to respond to insults that a child may address to his parents? Under no circumstances should you remain silent. You need to calmly say that you will not continue the conversation in this tone and move away. Remember that the hurtful words spoken do not apply to you. This is said by fear, bitterness of loneliness and hormones. You are an adult and must manage your emotions without succumbing to the provocations of a teenager. Children also need to learn to cope with their emotions, and your example of different behavior in a stressful situation will help them with this.
A quarrel has alienated you a little from each other, in order to get closer again, show your love: by saying about it, writing in a note, sitting next to each other for a while, with a funny video sent to social network, or just a hug. It is important for a child to feel parental love, even if they deny it with their behavior.
Girls 17-19 years old
What changes are happening
Now you can breathe a sigh of relief. All the hardest things are left behind. Your daughter already looks like adult girl, and her behavior model also becomes similar to the behavior of an adult. Violent displays of emotion are becoming less and less common. Now she is able to sensibly discuss her future, analyzing the present and taking into account the arguments of her parents. Of course, there will still be cases when her actions will contradict common sense and her beliefs, but these will be only isolated episodes. It is important that the previous periods did not resemble a war under the banner of “Who will win.” Because otherwise, an insurmountable wall will grow between you, and her stories about herself will be an illusion created for you.
How to react
Spending time together should be a joy for both parties; joint leisure will help with this. It doesn’t matter what it will be: gatherings at a pizzeria, visiting a theater or cinema, daily walks in the park. You shouldn't be too persistent, but you need to make it clear that the time spent together is important.
Growing up can be compared to passing through a zone of turbulence. The good news is that this is temporary. How your daughter will survive this period depends only on the parents.
It would seem that it couldn’t be simpler - he came up and smiled: “Hello! I like you!" It is only adults, having forgotten about their teenage years, who think this way. Both girls and boys are equally ashamed to approach first, even when they have known this girl for 100 years, live in the same yard, or study in a parallel class. But it’s one thing to simply nod or smile at an acquaintance, another thing is how the girl will like you so that she becomes only yours.
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Most main fear all boys - to be rejected. You, one might say, opened your soul to her - your secret that you are in love with her, and she... It is unknown how she will react to this: she will laugh in her face or she will giggle with her friends, pointing at you. Here are some general tips on how to please, how to make a girl pay attention to you.
If you are in the same class, it means you spend a lot of time together. Try to draw the attention of the girl you like to yourself. Just not with stupid actions that make you laugh - you’re not a clown! Pick up the textbook that fell from her, help her hang her coat in the locker room. At the same time, it is important to establish eye contact - look into the girl’s eyes. Don’t be intrusive: today offer a pen in place of the one she left at home, tomorrow bring the briefcase.
How to please a 10 year old girl if she is your classmate:
- Ask to explain an assignment that you did not understand in class.
- Offer sweets.
- Take her turn in the cafeteria.
- Take an interest in what she reads, show interest in her hobbies.
- Communicate with her on social networks - “knock” on her friends, rate her photos and posts.
- Invite me to a birthday party. If she has best friend, invite both. Your friend's friend should become your friend, or rather, your ally.
Tip one: Be helpful, but not intrusive.
How should I behave?
Boys often don’t know how to behave with the girl they like. And they do everything exactly the opposite, thereby not attracting, but pushing her away from themselves. The main mistake is not to deliberately pretend that you are not interested in the girl. Don't let your friends laugh at her. Have you decided to win her heart? Be a knight - protect your lady from evil attacks. Believe me, she will appreciate it.
Be polite. Say “Hello!”, “See you tomorrow!” It’s not difficult, but if you do it in a friendly manner, with a smile every day, your chosen one will definitely make you stand out among other boys. Remember to look at her in a friendly way, but not intently.
Be polite with her parents too - the word they said to your passion about what kind of person you are well-mannered boy, will be deposited in her head. Drop by drop - and in her head a positive opinion will form about you as a potential friend - a “guy”.
Does your beloved have a dog? Try to meet her a couple of times when she is walking her pet. Praise the dog and offer to take a walk together. Here's another piece of advice for you - how to please an 11-year-old girl.
Try to live by her interests (not dresses and cosmetics, of course!). Your chosen one goes to ballroom dancing? There's always a shortage of boy partners there. Most likely, you will be paired up, followed by joint training and performances. Learning to move beautifully is great.
Tip two: Live in her interests.
What topics should we talk about?
Starting a conversation is always difficult. Especially alone. It often happens that a boy and a girl start an interesting correspondence on a social network. There are topics for discussion and mutual friends. And we met - and what to talk about?
It is important to know that for any person, first of all, he is interested in himself. If you want a girl to like you, you need to talk about what interests her. You can praise her hairstyle, outfit, ability to dress stylishly, dance or sing beautifully. You should not talk about lessons, discuss classmates or relatives.
Try to use “I” as little as possible in your conversation and “you” as much as possible. For every person, the most pleasant thing is his name - call your friend by name, you can come up with diminutive options, the main thing is that she likes them.
Wherever the conversation starts, try to move it to topics that the girl will be pleased to talk about. If he is interested in music, ask him to tell you about his last performance at a concert or invite him to the next one. Draws - ask to visit to look at the drawings. If he likes to read, let him advise you what to read.
Tip three: To get a girl to like you, talk to her about topics that interest her. Leave your “I” at home, say “you” more often.
How to make acquaintances?
Should you try to find a girlfriend on social networks? Today, groups are popular in which teenagers are looking for online friends - like-minded people to communicate with. And the most frequent surveys are from 12-14 year olds. It is possible that serious acquaintances develop between a boy and a girl, starting with Internet correspondence, but more often than not they quickly fade away. It's difficult to be friends at a distance.
The easiest way to meet a girl is at school. Or maybe you already know each other because you study in the same or parallel classes? There just isn’t enough determination to come up and... get to know each other. Not as with a classmate, but as with a friend. You can find many reasons to talk, for example, ask;
- what was assigned to the house;
- does the girl have the book that the teacher talked about in class?
Word by word, a conversation ensued. Therefore, difficulties in how to meet and like a 12-year-old girl at school usually do not arise.
If she plays sports, sign up for the section. Not necessarily the same one. If you meet more often at the sports complex, you will have the opportunity to get acquainted, find common topics for conversation, and go home together. Athletes often go on vacation to training camps and sports camps. Common interests, training and discos - this is where true friendship can begin.
Summer, as we know, is the most best time for romantic relationships, and in the camp there are no questions about how to please a girl at 14 years old. There, acquaintances and relationships are established easily: the age and environment are conducive to love. A common squad, common events, evening bonfires evoke romantic dreams in girls. A disco is the perfect excuse to meet a girl. A couple of glances previously cast in the direction of the chosen one are enough, and she will understand that, so the acquaintance will be easy.
Tip four: Don’t be afraid to show the girl that you like her and want to get to know her.
What not to do?
If you want a girl to pay attention to you, be yourself. When asked how to please a 13-year-old girl, teenage girls themselves answer: “Don’t act like a clown.” There is no need to try with all your might to attract attention to yourself - with careless clothing, deliberate rudeness (pulling your pigtails - from the same series). Foul language will never make a girl pay attention to you.
Pretentiousness, the desire to show oneself better than the crowd - also not the best option the girl will like it. You should not brag about your victories among the “weaker sex”. Today you talk disparagingly about “ex”, tomorrow you will say the same about her - that’s what the girl will think about and is unlikely to show a desire to communicate.
Useful video
You can find out from the following video useful tips on how to please any girl:
Conclusion
- Don't be shy about making friends with the girl you like. It is not uncommon for guys in a circle of friends to deny it, embarrassed, afraid of being ridiculed.
- If your friend is important to you, if the relationship is serious, don’t be ashamed of it. Perhaps your friends simply haven’t met their chosen one yet. Someday they will like someone.
The last piece of advice: Be yourself and be proud that a bright feeling has already come to you.
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Upon reaching the age of 10, older children begin new life. With the advent of the first changes in physiology, the behavior of children begins to gradually change. An analysis of the psychology of children and adolescents once again proves that almost every year in a child’s life is a certain step in his development.
Modern teenagers in the company
The path from pure child to teenager
Each stage of a child's growth has interesting features. Often parents are frightened by this prospect of the unknown; they are simply shocked by the teenager’s behavior. In some cases, they are lost and do not know what actions to take. Therefore, they need to know what changes occur in a teenager’s body at the age of 12-13. It is also necessary to clearly understand how the psychology of a growing child at 13 and 16 years old differs. The thing is that many parents do not see their child as an adult boy or girl, regardless of their “respectable” age.
Adolescence– signs To avoid such problems with assessing children, you need to understand that a person who has reached the age of 12 has moved into the category of a teenager.
Starting from this period, parents need to begin to take their child more seriously, taking into account all the features that characterize the psychology of this transitional age.
Changes in adolescents at 12 years of age
12 years is a period of active physiological and psychological changes in a child’s life. It is during this period that the teenager begins to associate himself with the adult generation. This may manifest itself in the form of adopting other people's mannerisms in order to appear a little older. A boy at the age of 12 begins to pay attention to his current physical condition. The question of what he looks like becomes especially important to him. A girl at this age begins to actively take care of her appearance. This is where the first experiments with cosmetics begin.
Appearance problems are starting to worry teenagers Parents should not panic from such changes, but rather take care of the health of their teenager, buy her natural cosmetics with no chemicals.
The primary stage of adolescence may be accompanied by some slowness; this is an absolutely normal phenomenon and should not be alarmed. This feature appears in a teenager due to changes in the connection between memory and thinking. At this moment, more conscious remembering and comprehension of the material covered occurs. At this time, the boy begins to actively listen to adult criticism addressed to him. This increased interest in the opinions of others can provoke many far-fetched fears in a teenager.
Emotional sphere teenagers - features Dawn of adolescence
The psychology of adolescence is truly multifaceted and sometimes unpredictable. 13 years is the age when a child’s body experiences changes hormonal levels. This is why a teenager can experience rapid mood changes. If a boy suddenly becomes quicker and sharper in his judgments, this does not at all mean that a “difficult” child is growing up in the family. In reality, everything is different. These changes in children are a completely normal psychological factor.
A grown child begins to interpret himself as an adult with his own thoughts and desires.
Teenage crisis-crisis personality development Such behavior is considered to be the norm, despite the fact that many parents begin to panic due to such changes. These are the first steps of children towards future independence and separation from their parents. Of course, it can be very difficult for parents to come to terms with this fact, sometimes even impossible. During this period they make an irreparable mistake, trying to suppress any aspirations and aspirations of the child. This can lead to irreversible consequences.
The teenage psyche is very fragile and susceptible during this period; it is important that the child takes away some specific experience from this, and does not feel tied hand and foot.
At this age, the first personal tragedies and secrets from parents appear 13 years is a period when attraction to the opposite sex intensifies, this is especially often observed on the part of girls. The boy begins to feel something similar a little later, but they also have an interest in the opposite sex. During this period, all teenagers are very self-critical, their appearance worries them very much, and there is a desire to be like their idol, who has an ideal figure, gorgeous hair and expressive eyes.
Rugrats!
This period is difficult for both teenagers and their parents. Mere knowledge of the psychology of a teenager cannot save anyone. Knowledge and practical use this knowledge are completely different things.
A girl begins to claim her rights to freedom earlier than a grown-up boy.
The girl is “growing up” before the boys They achieve this in the way they understand it, they begin to test in practice whether the prohibitions that their parents set really apply. It is at the age of 12 that many parents begin to conduct subtle politics with their children. You can no longer tell a 13-year-old child to “sit down for your homework,” and on the other hand, letting the situation take its course is also not an option. The main thing to do here is to create a trusting relationship with the teenager.
Advice for parents: Everything that was previously strictly prohibited is slowly being conquered by the child. And that's normal, don't be afraid of it.
This is the only way each of us went through the growing up stage. You need to remember yourself at this age. 12 years is a time of active trials and a lot of errors. Unfortunately, many parents are deeply mistaken that they can forbid something at this age. The formation of all life values and priorities occurs between the ages of 3 and 5 years.
How does a teenager feel a sense of adulthood? And 12 years is the time to reap the benefits of that upbringing. Just because your boy refuses to do the dishes or make the bed doesn't mean he's incapable of doing it. Most likely, in this way he expresses his protest to the inevitable growing up, or hygiene and order are not in his values. During this difficult period, it is important to concentrate on the main thing, leaving out all the little things. It is important not to overdo it with parental pressure, so that such a protest does not become stronger for the rest of your life.
The influence of the company on a teenager
It is at this time that the teenager’s desire to imitate his friends with whom he is in close contact is great. The more parents fight with their teenager at home, the more he will be drawn to those who are on the street. Even very decent adults tried to smoke or drink at least once during their teenage years. Is it important to know how your girl or boy lives? What connects them with the company?
Teenagers and peers - the social aspect of age Advice to parents: trust, trust again. You need to be firmly convinced and express that you firmly believe that all troubles are just an accident, your boy knows how to behave correctly in a given situation.
If you panic and scroll through the worst scenarios in your head, then your son may unknowingly live up to your worst expectations. This is the psychology of children, there is no escape from it, everyone goes through this period.
Taming the Shrew Girl
Girls who do not have the right to their own personal “no” at home begin to actively protest in public.
Unfortunately, it is better to sort things out within the walls of the house than to bring the problem to public attention. And parents need to be patient during this period, this must be overcome, this is the first tangible signal of growing up. And obedient father's and mother's daughters remain infantile for the rest of their lives.
Teenage crisis often leads to deviant behavior The adolescence period in children exists for the purpose of developing the necessary immunity for life - try a lot to do right choice. This is a period when children experience disappointment in their parents and there is misunderstanding. It is then that the basic life values are created that accompany a person throughout his life.
Teenagers try to do everything against the will of their parents, actively expressing their contrived independence.
Teenagers need to be patient during puberty Parents will have to be patient during this period. During this period, a teenager experiences a hidden need for approval and support from his parents. It is during this period that adolescents experience low self-esteem, self-acceptance and self-evaluation, and low self-worth.
First manifestations of personality
The most important thing here depends not on how the teenager studies at school, but on the ways in which he can establish himself in his own yard. The teenager begins to actively defend his positions in the classroom and in the yard. The main activity during this period is communication. His future position in society depends on how he establishes himself among his peers. He spends more and more time with his peers. A redistribution of roles in society begins, nerds do not receive due respect, and roles in society begin to be distributed into leaders, scapegoats, and neutrals. They are driven by the desire to gain recognition from their peers, to be like them, but at the same time they want to stand out among them.
Children of this age exhibit confrontation when collaborating with adults, which leads to many incidents during interactions. The opinion of other guys about the teenager is the main motivating force for further work on oneself. Boys begin to assert themselves through friendships with older teenagers, using slang, smoking, provocative clothing, being rude, acting silly, or being excessively helpful to someone stronger.
Teenagers are starting to buy to appear more mature. Advice to parents: at this time it is very important for you to rebuild your relationship with your grown-up children from parental authority, universal obedience, to friendly, partnership relations.
Otherwise, you shouldn’t expect anything from your children except eternal confrontation and war. Adults must show sensitivity and caution in their actions; they must avoid thoughtless outbursts of anger and aggression towards their child, even if he himself inflamed the conflict due to differences in views. When helping your child cope with difficulties, do not scold the offenders, but try to find out why he found himself in such a situation.
The main thing is to establish a trusting relationship with your teenager. The greatest comfort during this period will be felt in children who grew up in families where children are spared from excessive parental care; warmth and understanding are felt in relationships, along with clear, jointly worked out rules, and strict control over their implementation. Parents have the right to control their child's choice of profession and extracurricular activities, and aesthetic preferences can come from peers. Leave it to them. And under no circumstances put yourself above your child, avoid arrogance when communicating with him, then it will be much easier to survive this period.
